Question 1: What's your age?
(I ask so we can make adjustments to your score based on which generation you are a part of. Don’t worry, this information is completely private and won’t be shared with anyone.)
Question 2: Are you currently in a serious relationship?
(The reason for asking is because it dramatically affects your results.)
Note that being in a “serious relationship” means you are either married or exclusively dating one man who is committed to you. If you are not dating at all or are dating a man who won’t commit to you exclusively please check “no.” If you’re not sure if you’re in a serious relationship, simply choose “I’m not sure.”
Question 3: Does your boyfriend or husband regularly say “I Love You?”
A.
Yes, every day and without prompting
B.
Yes, but only if I say “I love you” first or when it is expected
C.
No, but he tells me how much he cares in other ways (“I adore you.” “You’re wonderful.” “I’m lucky to have you.” Etc
D.
No, he never says he loves me verbally even if I say it first
Question 3: Does the man you are dating regularly tell you how much he cares about you?
(This can mean saying “I love you” if you’re deeper into dating or it can mean saying things like “I adore you,” “You’re wonderful,” “I’m so happy you are in my life,” “I’m so glad I met you,” etc.
A.
Yes, often and without prompting
B.
Yes, but only if I say something nice to him first or if it’s expected
Question 4: Women in serious relationships often feel like they become a lower priority to a man over time. Does your boyfriend or husband still make you a high priority in his life even if it takes effort?
A.
Yes, I feel like I’m always or almost always his #1 priority
B.
Yes, I feel like I’m in his top 3 priorities and sometimes or often his #1 priority
C.
Yes, but only if I complain and “force” him to or if it’s my birthday or Valentine’s day
D.
No, I feel like his friends, work, family and hobbies always take priority over me
Question 4: Women who are not in a committed relationship often feel like they have to fight for attention from a man they are dating. Do you feel like the man you are assessing makes you a high priority in his life?
A.
Yes, I feel like I’m always or almost always his #1 priority
B.
Yes, I feel like I’m in his top 3 priorities and sometimes or often his #1 priority
C.
Yes, but only if I complain and “force” him to or if it’s my birthday or Valentine’s day
D.
No, I feel like his friends, work, family and hobbies always take priority over me
Question 5: Does he tell his friends about you and show you off?
A.
Yes, I’ve met his closest friends and family and he seems proud to have me as the woman in his life
B.
No, he keeps me separate from his friends and family and only ever wants to spend time with me 1-on-1
C.
I’ve met some of his friends but there are others he refuses to let me meet
Question 6: Does he care about YOUR pleasure during sex??
A.
Yes, he really enjoys making me feel good
B.
No, he only seems interested in his own pleasure
C.
If I complain about being unsatisfied he tries to “take care of me” but he treats it like a chore
Question 7: Does he respect and encourage you? What I mean is: Does he value your opinion; do you share important decisions; and does he treat you like a partner instead of an accessory?
Also, does he encourage you to have friends, interests and passions outside of the relationship?
Question 8: Do your close friends and people you trust like the way he treats you and encourage the relationship?
A.
Yes, they think we are really good together
B.
Yes, they think I should be satisfied with what I have instead of wanting more
C.
No, they think he’s wrong for me and that I can do better
D.
No, they actively tell me I should leave him
E.
They have no opinion about him
Question 9: Does he look at you like he’d crawl over broken glass and drink hot lava to make love to you?
A.
Yes, the way he looks at me makes me feel sexy and desired
B.
He still looks at me with desire but seems more interested in other women
C.
I feel sexually invisible to him no matter what I do